Human behaviors are often tied to one another.
For example, consider the case of a woman named Jennifer Dukes Lee. For two and a half decades during her adult life, starting when she left for college and extending into her 40s, Lee never made her bed except for when her mother or guests dropped by the house.
At some point, she decided to give it another try and managed to make her bed four days in a row—a seemingly trivial feat. However, on the morning of that fourth day, when she finished making the bed, she also picked up a sock and folded a few clothes lying around the bedroom. Next, she found herself in the kitchen, pulling the dirty dishes out of the sink and loading them into the dishwasher, then reorganizing the Tupperware in a cupboard and placing an ornamental pig on the counter as a centerpiece.
She later explained, “My act of bed-making had set off a chain of small household tasks… I felt like a grown-up—a happy, legit grown-up with a made bed, a clean sink, one decluttered cupboard, and a pig on the counter. I felt like a woman who had miraculously pulled herself up from the energy-sucking Bermuda Triangle of Household Chaos.”
She was experiencing the Domino Effect.
More here – James Clear
PS; It has always amazed me how much of success is simply tied to getting out of your own way and overcoming your own inertia. Success is a grind but there is something special about the grind that is not often appreciated by those who want instant success or for someone else to make them successful
This chimes with Jordan Person’s advice to tidy your room. A similar point was made by Stephen Covey who stressed the need to work on your circle of influence (i.e. what you can control) rather than fretting about your circle of concern (stuff that you can’t control).
And most importantly this – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pxBQLFLei70